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Viera, Florida, United States
Living the Florida Lifestyle with my husband Max and enjoying my life with 2 furry poodles Sissy and Missy who I call my children. My human children are all grown and on their own. I am a proud grandmother of 5. We live in Sunny, Central Florida in a gorgeous house on a lake. I am blessed to have overcome my abusive upbringing and have decided that it is time to write about it to help others who experienced the same physical and emotional abuse. This Blog is dedicated to those who have remained silent!!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

10 Things I am Grateful For!

Earlier today, I was reflecting on what I am grateful for and counting my blessings. I try to do this at least once a day no matter what  is going on in my life! I must say that I am grateful for the challenges in my life, without them I wouldn't be able to appreciate everything else. For example, I received the results to a recent MRI of my lower back (lumbar). Every two years I must be checked; in 2006 I had a cancerous tumor removed. Although I have some disk and spinal problems, my test results came back negative. That is wonderful news!

Many days are challenging for me since I experience pain on a daily basis. However, I never focus on that. To me, being able to get up every morning without the help of a cane or walker or any other prosthesis brings me joy like you wouldn't believe. I have learned how to monitor my life and activities so that I can lead a comfortable life. Many things are out of my control of course and I can't always anticipate what the day will bring and how I will physically react. What I mean by that is that no matter what I schedule for any particular day, reality kicks in and re-routes my plans. Sometimes these drastic changes can reek havoc on my body and at those instances I simply adjust my thinking and use positive affirmations. I also use a reward system. For example, I reward myself by vegging out on my recliner in front of the TV or listen to some great music after I take care of what needs to be done.

During this Holiday Season, there are presents to buy, food shopping, family visiting, baking and overindulging. Great fun-right? I think so. I really appreciate being able to do all these things because I believe that you need to have things to look forward to-something to get you out of bed every morning! Especially when you think of what the alternatives are.

So, what else I am grateful for? Here I will share 10 things. They are not in any priority-only in the order as they popped in my head.

  1. We live in Florida and it has been rather chilly. It's quite an adjustment when the weather gets cold because our skin is thin. I am grateful that at least we don't get snow and ice.
  2. I am grateful for our beautiful home and all the modern comforts.
  3. I am grateful that I am surrounded with a large family and supportive friends which can be counted on when needed.
  4. I am grateful that I have the love of a wonderful and generous husband.
  5. I am grateful everyday for the spiritual guidance I receive from my guardian Angels. I have had many close calls in traffic lately where my reaction was due to outside forces and the outcome could have been disastrous.
  6. I am grateful that my parents can share yet one more Holiday Season with us in spite of their health.
  7. I am truly grateful for my freedom and that I am able to do whatever I want within reason without living in fear.
  8. I am grateful for my two beautiful toy poodles who give me unconditional love.
  9. I am grateful that I have everything that I need to live comfortably.
  10. I am grateful for all the blessings currently in my life and those which have not yet arrived.  
I would also like to add that I am grateful for my readers. I hope and pray that I have created a spark in you which will prompt you to look for things to be grateful for in your life as well!

Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year!